Die daily. But not literally.
You must die for yourself in every single day of your life. No more reservation. Just die. Die for your flesh. Die for your desires. Die for the sake of your love to God. Be brave enough to do it. Remember, you need to do it. For whom? You. And God.
You must be broken first to be whole again. You must have nothing left for yourself so that you are able to receive something new again. You should die first for you to have life again. A life that’s not same as yesterday. But a new life. A new life that is equivalent to a new “you”.
So lose your life and then life will seek for you. Remember, we die for God. And we live also for God.