Certified 100% Entrepreneur pagdating sa Love

I was about to sleep when these thoughts suddenly came into my mind: “Be an entrepreneur when it comes to love.” I admit it to you, friend.. I was emotionally drained tonight kaya siguro kung ano anong pumapasok sa isip ko. Kaloka! I was like: “What?!” And then suddenly habang paulit ulit na naglalaro sa isipan ko ang idea na yon, bigla kong narealize sa sarili ko. ” Ang cute mung idea na yun a?”

Kaya naisip ko ngayon, why not to blog this kind of idea.

Hahaha!

So here it goes…

If you would mind, I am a CBA(College of Business Administration) student taking up a major course of Entrepreneurship. Hehe! So ayun, I just realized how grateful am I about sa course that I am taking up until today. Graduating student na ko and next year, road to PICC na! Ang saya saya kasi aminado ako sa sarili ko na kahit di ko man maalala lahat ng lessons na natake up ko na, I can say pa rin na of course, may na retain naman sa utak ko kahit papano.

Isa na dun yung lesson na na take up ko when I was freshman student before.

Subject: Introduction to Entrepreneurship

Lesson: Personalities of an Entrepreneur

How I appreciate that kind of lesson. Di ko ineexpect sa sarili ko na tonight, pwede ko din pala yun ma- iapply maski sa love. Hahaha!

Ang cute lang isipin. You can be also an entrepreneur when it comes to love because of those qualities and personalities na pino- possess mo.

Isa na dun yung pagiging risk-taker mo. Alam naman nating lahat yun, diba? When it comes to love, you always become a risk taker. Gaya ng isang entrepreneur, he is always willing to take risks na posibleng mag fall sa business nya. Regardless of those factors na pwedeng makapag turn down sa business nya… he still pursue to run his business. 

Ganun din when it comes to love. You take risks in this kind of business. You are willing to invest your time, energy and money for the person whom you love with the risk of whether the person can or cannot reciprocate the love that you gave to them. For you, that doesn’t matter at all because when you love, you just love! Desire mo yun na ibigay. Love na unconditional gaya ng kay Lord.

Naalala ko bigla yung sinabi ng prof ko sa class namin last week. Some of entrepreneurs daw kasi ganto ang mindset nila: “Di bale ng walang kita, basta hindi nandadaya.”

Imagine that kind of thought kung i-aapply sa business of love. Pag nagmamahal ka, nagmamahal ka lang! Period. After all, di na ganun kahalaga sa’yo whether masusuklian ba o hindi yung love na ibinibigay mo. Basta ang mahalaga sayo, nagmahal ka lang naman ng tapat. Ganern! You will take risks in the name of love. And whether ma-reciprocate yung love mo o hindi… At the end, panalo ka pa din. Dahil sa love, wala kang talo! Kahit maraming risks sa love, you shouldn’t be afraid dahil nagmamahal ka lang naman ๐Ÿ™‚

Move on tayo sa next personality.

Patience

 In the world of business, as an entrepreneur… marami kang ma-memeet na ibat ibang customers na dadating sayo. Yung iba, loyal customers. They are always to patronize your product. Yung iba na man, tatangkilik sa product na ino-offer mo, once. Pero karamihan sa kanila di nagtatagal at di na muling bumalik dahil di sila ganun na-satisfy sa bagay na inoffer mo sa kanila. Hindi mo sila masisisi dahil everybody has their own preferences.

Ganun din pagdating sa love, syempre. Be thankful if may dumating sayo na loyal partner. Be patient enough sa kung anuman ang dine demand nila sayo. Have patience to deal with their attitudes lalo when it comes to their bad sides. 

Mahalaga ang patience sa loob ng isang relationship dahil dito mo rin masusukat kung gaano mo kamahal yung isang tao despite of their flaws.

Third personality na tayo, friend. So this would be the last personality. 

Innovator.

Pagdating sa isang business, an entrepreneur should always have the effort to create something new from an existing product.

When it comes to love naman, dapat you, as a partner, always turn the problems and negativities into a positive one. Innovative din pagdating sa love. Smart at creative person ang dating, haha!

So ayun lang naman. Payo ko lang if you will love, always have a spirit of being an entrepreneur. 

Shalom!

Wait for me

I missed you. I missed those conversation that we had before. It’s been awhile since I left. Hey, I’m sorry ๐Ÿ˜ฆ I know how it hurts you to left you hanging unto this relationship while trying to find my own life without you. Sorry. I missed you so much. Can we talk? ๐Ÿ˜ฆ 

I missed those things that we used to do before. Missing those deep conversations. Iba pa din pala pag Sayo ako umiiyak. Your comfort is not as the same with my special friends whom I used to talked to. I missed everything. The way we laughed together. Those times when I am sad and you’re there to uplift and encourage me by your Words. Those days when we spend our time together just to sit back and reminisce my old good memories. It hurts to see myself that our relationship turned out to be like this just because I let myself to choose happiness without you. But I was really, really wrong. I’m sorry, please ๐Ÿ˜ฅ I’m sorry if I decide with all by myself. Regrets. That was the only thing that remains in my heart, up until now. I left you hanging alone. I didn’t even inform you that I will leave soon. 

Sorry ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

We need to talk. This pain is getting worst now as if I couldn’t almost carry it with all by myself. I need you ๐Ÿ˜ฆ Please ๐Ÿ˜ฅ 

I will come home.

Just stay there. Wait for me.

I missed you so much. Hey, let’s fix this. 

I love you.

Wait for me.

An Open Letter to my First Love

All I wanted to say is just a simple “Thank you” that comes from the very core of my heart. Thank you. 

Thank you for having this kind of life that You gave to me. Thank you for everything that You have done for me so that I can live. Thank you because even long time before when I am still in my mother’s womb, you already gave Your life for the sake of mine. I know that words are not enough to thank you for all that You did. I live because there’s someone out there who sacrifice his own life for my sake. My life costs priceless. I dont have any rights to own my life, even to trade and sold this life, though. This life is not mine. Everything that I have right now belongs to someone who paid for me. And that is You ๐Ÿ™‚ I owe everything to You. Every achievements, riches, treasures that I gain belongs only to you. I love you! ๐Ÿ™‚

Sorry for sometimes, I even take for granted those things that I have. Sometimes, I see myself holding on for something but actually dont even know the value that I am holding. I’m sorry if I overlook those things that actually has very valuable if I could only realize it. Sorry, sorry.
Please ๐Ÿ˜ฆ I want to start again. I want to try it again for one more chance. I wont promise. I’ll just do it. I will give my best to appreciate this life that I have. I want to show You that the life you have given for me will not turn into vain. I will do my best to make this life worth. 

Love,

Jen

Hi, 10!

1.

Isa. Isang bagay lang na sinabi mo sa’ken ang palagi kong pinanghahawakan at hinding hindi ko makakalimutan. Mula sayo nanggaling ang salitang “Sobrang mahal kita.” Kaya expected ko na regardless sa circumstances na pinagdadaaanan natin, palagi mong maipapakita sa akin ang mga salitang ‘yan. 

2.

Dalawa. Dalawang bagay lang ang hinihiling ko sa relationship na ‘to. Trust and Love. ‘Yan dapat ang hinding hindi mawala sa ‘ten. Yan ang dapat nating pakaingatan. Trusting and loving each other so that we are able to persevere through the test of time. 

3. 

Tatlo. Sa ikatlong pagkakataon na nakita kitang umiyak sa harap ko… Tila yata sapat ng reason para masabi ko kung gano ka ka-sincere at open sa feelings mo para sa ‘ken. I’m glad dahil hindi ka takot para ipakita sa akin ang mga kahinaan mo. Hey, I love you!

4.

Apat. Though ikaapat na girlfriend mo na ‘ko, I still felt being as your first girlfriend. Sana sa ikaapat na beses mo na pag take risk sa love, tumino ka na ha?! I may not be your first, but promise to me that I’ll be your last girl. Okay? ๐Ÿ™‚

5.

Lima. Sa unang limang buwan natin sa relationship, nakita ko na ang attitude mo- both good and worst side. Aaminin ko, sa una nahirapan akong mag adjust at tanggapin agad kung ano ang pag uugali mo. Pero teka, diba sabi nga nila… “Pag mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, tanggap mo ng buong buo kung anupaman o sinuman siya.”  Sa una lang pala mahirap pero later on, natanggap na kita kung sino ka. Your flaws and weaknesses… natutunan kong i-embrace at tanggapin yun dahil love na love kitaaaa! Btw, thank you dahil alam kong nag adjust at patuloy ka pang nag aadjust sa mga “not so good” na attitude mo. Hehe!

6.

Anim. May anim na “K” bagay akong nakita sayo: Kasimplehan, Kabaitan, Katapatan, Kasipagan, Katalinuhan at Kagwapuhan. (naniwala ka naman!?) Hahaha! Seryoso ako dyan. Teka, isa isahin kong iexplain sayo para ma convince ka na nakita ko nga sayo ang mga bagay na yan.

Kasimplehan.

Ikaw yung lalakeng walang kaarte arte pagdating sa buhay. Lahat ata halos ng pagkain, kinakain mo. White T-shirt at tsaka pants sapat na kung may lakad. Simple pumorma. Simplicity, may ganun ka pala?! Haha!

Kabaitan

Ewan. Di ako sure kung totoo ba tong nakikita sayo. Talaga ba? Okay :/ Haha! Sabi din kasi nila yun e. Edi sige, ikaw na mabait. ๐Ÿ˜›

Katapatan

Pagdating sa feelings mo, wala kang tinatago sa ken. Lahat, expressed! Never din kitang na issue-han pagdating sa mga girls. Tama yan! Sapak ka sa ‘ken pag nag lie ka or nag cheat.

Kasipagan

Oo na. MAS masipag ka na sa ‘ken… (kumain, matulog) HAHA! Okay. Sige sige. Masipag ka sa lahat except sa pagpasok sa school. Mwehehehe. Work lang ng work kahit di ka pa makapagpatuloy sa pag school mo. Mas mainam na yan kesa nakanganga ka sa inyo. 

Katalinuhan

Dapat lagi mong gagamitin yan ah? Pag di mo na ginagamit, benta mo na yaaaan! HAHAHA! 

Kagwapuhan

Pampalubag loob na lang siguro ‘yan. Hahahaha! Sige na nga. Baka maiyak ka pa e. Oo na. Pogi ka na. Syempre naman. Tall dark and handsome. -_- Happy? Hahaha! Tse. Loveyou, negro!!!

7.

Pito. Akala ko sa ika pitong buwan na pagtatagal natin sa relationship na to, magwawakas na ang love story natin bilang Ruth and Boaz. But still, we had still choose to forgive and love each other over sa mistakes at pagkukulang ng isa’t isa. Kaya tuloy pa din ang journey. Our love story is not yet over, it’s almost started pa lang.

8.

Walo. Nakaabot tayo ngayon sa ika- walong buwan. Apat na buwan pa, road to forever na talagaaaa! Hahaha! Yay! Thank you for everything that you have done for me. I know marami na tayong pinagdaanan sa loob ng walong buwan. At marami pa tayong pagdadaanan pa. Kaya I hope, patuloy lang tayong makibaka para sa relationship natin patungo sa road to forever, okie? ๐Ÿ’•

9.

Siyam. M-A-H-A-L K-I-T-A: Siyam na letra. I LOVE YOU sa English. Mahal kita. I love you… for being who you are. I love you, as always. I love you. I love you. Mahal kita! Kaya lahat ng bagay gagawin ko para mag persevere sa relationship na to. Lahat ng na bagay kakayanin ko dahil sa MAHAL KITA.  ๐Ÿ’ž

10.

Huli. Tandaan mo na ikaw ang huli kong mamahalin. That’s my promise. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Die daily

Die.

Die daily. But not literally.

You must die for yourself in every single day of your life. No more reservation. Just die. Die for your flesh. Die for your desires. Die for the sake of your love to God. Be brave enough to do it. Remember, you need to do it. For whom? You. And God.

You must be broken first to be whole again. You must have nothing left for yourself so that you are able to receive something new again. You should die first for you to have life again. A life that’s not same as yesterday. But a new life. ย A new life that is equivalent to a new “you”.ย 

So lose your life and then life will seek for you. Remember, we die for God. And we live also for God.ย 

Life may not be great, but life is good.


In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 1 Thessalonians 5:18(NKJV)

LIFE MAY NOT BE GREAT, BUT LIFE IS GOOD.” ยฉ

We wish for an easy life. No problems needed to solve…no bad things allowed to happen.No sadness. No heartaches.

But as a follower of Christ, our Lord didn’t promised us an easy life…

In every circumstances that we’re going through, He promised that He will not put us into a situation where we aren’t able to bear it. (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Life is not always great.

But life is good.

We can still enjoy life regardless of our circumstances…

We can still praise and worship our God…

because.. 

YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES WILL NOT DICTATE YOU ON HOW YOU ARE GOING TO WORSHIP GOD.

In every season, we have an opportunity to give thanks to God. Despite of our pains, struggles, and circumstances… we can still praise and worship God for His faithfulness and goodness to us.

Book-drunken life

“โ€‹The object we call a book is not the real book, but its potential, like a musical score or seed. It exists fully only in the act of being read; and its real home is inside the head of the reader, where the symphony resounds, the seed germinates. A book is a heart that only beats in the chest of another. The child I once was read constantly and hardly spoke, because she was ambivalent about the merits of communication, about the risks of being mocked or punished or exposed. The idea of being understood and encouraged, of recognizing herself in another, of affirmation, had hardly occurred to her and neither had the idea that she had something to give others. So she read, taking in words in huge quantities, a childrenโ€™s and then an adultโ€™s novel a day for many years, seven books a week or so, gorging on books, fasting on speech, carrying piles of books home from the library.” ยฉ